Relationship

Names for attachment dynamics the previous generation described only with silence.

16 entries

Relationship Benching Leaving someone on the bench: minimum contact while waiting for a better starter. Relationship Breadcrumbing Keeping someone hooked with crumbs of attention: a like, a cold text, never a step. Relationship Compersion Joy in the other's romantic pleasure, the cultivated opposite of jealousy. Relationship Cushioning Keeping spare suitors as a pillow in case the current bond fails. Relationship Ghosting Vanishing without notice from a bond that was still running: silence as the answer. Relationship Haunting After ghosting, the visit: stories watched, an old like, presence without speech. Relationship Love bombing An early flood of praise, gifts and shared future, used to speed up attachment. Relationship Metamour Your partner's partner: the other love in the network, who is not yours. Relationship Nesting partner The partner with whom one shares house, bills and logistics — the nest — in a non-monogamous arrangement. Relationship Open relationship A couple (or primary bond) that agrees sexual encounters outside, with its own rules. Relationship Orbiting Leaving the conversation and still circling in the digital orbit: likes, views, stories, no speech. Relationship Polyamory More than one love bond at once, with the people involved knowing. Relationship Situationship A bond that has the routine of a couple and refuses the name of a couple. Relationship Slow fade Disappearance on a ramp: colder replies, longer delays, until the thread dies without a slammed door. Relationship Talking stage A phase of messages and dates with no exclusivity agreement and no name. Relationship Zombieing Coming back from ghosting as if the death had not happened: a hi after the silence.