Lexicon
A–Z index of everything Taboords publishes: slang, acronyms, dynamics, traits, scenes.
Slang
Ratio
When a reply wins more uptake than the original post, read as a public loss.
Slang
Rizz
Flirting charm, usually improvised and visible to an internet audience.
Psychology
RSD
Acronym for rejection sensitive dysphoria: a disproportionate pain at a rejection signal, common in ADHD speech.
Psychology
Rumination
Looping the same episode in thought without reaching an exit.
Sexuality
Safeword
An agreed word that stops the scene for real, above the theatre of no.
Japanese culture
Senpai
The one who arrived earlier at school, in the club, at work: senior in the path, not necessarily in civil age.
Psychology
Sensory overload
When light, sound, smell or touch pass the limit and the system jams or blows.
Slang
Sigma
A stereotype of the man who refuses pack hierarchy and performs independence.
Slang
Simp
Someone who over-defers or overspends for romantic attention, usually unreturned.
Relationship
Situationship
A bond that has the routine of a couple and refuses the name of a couple.
Relationship
Slow fade
Disappearance on a ramp: colder replies, longer delays, until the thread dies without a slammed door.
Acronym
SMH
Shaking my head: disbelief reduced to three letters.
Psychology
Special interest
The topic that organises attention, speech and time, especially for autistic people.
Sexuality
SSC
Acronym for safe, sane, consensual: the classic ethical triad of the BDSM scene.
Slang
Stan
An intense fan who defends, tracks, and sometimes attacks in the name of an idol or work.
Psychology
Stimming
A repeated movement or sound that regulates the system: rocking, clicking, repeating a phrase.
Relationship
Talking stage
A phase of messages and dates with no exclusivity agreement and no name.
Acronym
TBH
To be honest: a warning that candour is coming, often already priced in.
Subculture
Therian
A person who describes a non-human animal identity as part of who they are, not only as a fandom mascot.
Psychology
Time blindness
Difficulty sensing time passing: five minutes and two hours weigh the same until lateness arrives.
Acronym
TL;DR
Too long; didn't read: the summary for whoever refused the whole text.
Slang
Touch grass
An order to leave the screen and touch the physical world, usually as mockery.
Psychology
Trauma bonding
Attachment that strengthens in the cycle of harm and reconciliation, not despite it.
Japanese culture
Truck-kun
The personified truck that hits the protagonist and opens the isekai.
Japanese culture
Tsundere
A character who treats the other with roughness and, in layers, with affection: ice that cracks.
Slang
Unalive
A platform euphemism: to kill or to die said in a way the filter might let through.
Subculture
Visual kei
A Japanese scene in which the band's look — makeup, hair, costume — is as central as the sound.
Sexuality
Voyeurism
Arousal from looking; in the clinic, a pattern that invades someone who did not agree to be seen.
Japanese culture
Waifu
A character (almost always female) treated as a fandom wife: poster, figure, ironic vow.
Subculture
Weeb
A Western slur for someone nested too deep in anime-Japan: the pejorative cousin of otaku.
Subculture
Yami kawaii
Sick cute: a bow, a pill, plastic blood and a smile that does not hide unease.
Japanese culture
Yandere
A character whose affection turns into possession: the dere that slips into yan (sick, warped).
Relationship
Zombieing
Coming back from ghosting as if the death had not happened: a hi after the silence.